Whether you’re taking a gap year, moving countries or just planning a summer holiday, it can make for a scary time.
However, no matter what the journey ahead entails, it is so important to remember that fear is not a weakness. It is a natural human instinct that we all have, and have had since we were cave men. Being afraid is not what is important, it’s what you do about it. So, feel it, accept it, and then find a way to quell it.
So, with that in mind, read on for ways that you can feel the fear and do your travelling anyway!

Travel with a friend
If the main anxiety and fear you hold is about travelling alone, consider going with a friend. They don’t even have to come for the whole journey. They could just help you get settled into a new home. They could just take you to the airport. Allow yourself to be supported by those who love you. You’ll then also have someone to share any fears or doubts with. Sometimes just saying your worries out loud takes a weight off your shoulders.
Keep in touch with loved ones
Even if you are travelling solo, it doesn’t’ mean you are ‘alone’. Thanks to all the many advancements of technology, there are dozens of ways to keep in touch. Use Skype for video calls. Use Whatsapp to send free text messages. Keep everyone updated on your journey and experiences on Facebook and Twitter. Connect yourself with those at home and you’ll feel far less distant.
Accept that you may feel homesick
From international pop stars to Prime Ministers, everybody is susceptible to homesickness. However, it’s important to remember that it is entirely natural and normal. It will pass in time. There is a wonderful guide on how to overcome any feelings of homesickness over on The Leap.
Be inspired by literature
Inspiration is something that can keep us all motivated. Luckily, it can found in lots of places. Look in books; Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert is all about living a creative life and being bold and brave. Or, re-read your favourite poems. Poetry is filled with courage and stories. Walt Whitman is one such poet who wrote “Not I, nor anyone else, can travel that road for you. You must travel it yourself.” Find his words and read them.
Make a Pinterest account
Away from fiction and poetry, one perfect place to find travel inspiration is actually online. If you don’t already have a Pinterest board, now is the time to get one. It allows you to collect images of your destination and save them. Then, if fear creeps in, remember that they inspired you once and can inspire you again. Go back and look at the images and photographs again. For example, if you are fearing a long flight to New Zealand, refocus yourself on what you will see when you get there. Distract yourself with what the future will hold, and it will make the present seem less intimidating.
It may seem a little bit soon to be thinking about the summer holidays, but it’s incredible how time really does fly. It’s almost impossible to believe that we are already nearly a week into March! The days are getting longer; the nights are getting brighter, which means one thing – Summer is just around the corner.
So, it’s time to get your thinking caps on. If you haven’t got anything organized yet, you need to decide what you actually want to do. If you require booking leave from work, then you ought to do that as soon as possible. There are so many choices! Do you want to get away from home and venture onto foreign soil? Or are you planning on staying at home? The choice is yours.

picture: Janie H
Whatever you decide to do, you’ve got to keep your offspring busy. The refrain of “I’m bored!” is not something you want to hear from your children in the holidays. Attempting to keep kids amused when they’re off school can be a difficult task. And it’s also expensive. If you haven’t started trying to save some cash for the holidays then now is a good time to start. Even if you can only afford to put aside a few pennies each week, you’ll be surprised how quickly it adds up. And every little helps, especially when you’re trying to entertain the little ones. Once they get bigger, children seem to cost even more than ever. A toddler might be over the moon with a sweetie that costs 50p. Your teenager is likely to be less impressed; they often only reach such levels of joy and gratitude with something expensive.
Vacationing in a resort where there is entertainment laid on for kids is a good idea to keep them amused. This can be done with not much effort on your part. It’ll give you some time to yourself too. Relaxing on holiday can be difficult when you’ve got your kids around all day and night. You can go all inclusive, too, which might just save some money. If you prefer less intense surroundings, then there are other options. Why not take them exploring? Scoping out a place you’ve never been to before is educational and fun. Touriocity offers a bespoke “guided tour” service from natives of places all over the world. Getting shown round by someone who knows your destination like the back of their hand will save you time. You’ll certainly get the lowdown on what somewhere is really like.
If you’re staying on home turf, then there is likely to be a whole load of stuff going on that you didn’t even know about. Check local listings, libraries and newspapers to get all the details on child-friendly activities in your area. Many places like swimming pools and museums put on special events aimed at kids (and parents!) during the holidays. Your local Children’s Centre may have fun things planned too, so pay them a visit!
So, what are you waiting for? It’s time to start getting ready for the summer holidays. Make the summer of 2016 your best one yet!
A family vacation is an amazing experience. Your kids will see more of the world (and hopefully learn from it!). You can escape from the everyday reality offered at home. Adults always remember the holidays they had with their parents when they were younger. Now you have an opportunity to gift unforgettable memories for your own children.

But if you’re not organized, then a trip can become an absolute nightmare! Planning everything out meticulously sometimes feels like a lot of effort. It’s tempting to avoid it. But when a family fail to adequately plan the holiday is just going to end up longing for home!
So here are the steps you need to follow.
Best if the parents decide this one. Children will probably pick ‘the moon’ or ‘the Land of Ooo’ from Adventure Time. Having said that, you do need to pick your holiday destination with the kids in mind. For a lot of people, this means going somewhere with a lot of tourist-heavy theme parks. But what if your kids are afraid of rollercoasters? Before picking your destination, make sure everyone is going to find something that will make them happy. The kids might not be too enthused by pure sightseeing!
Make up a list of all the awesome family activities you can reach at your destination. Don’t think about time and money restraints at first; just get as many possibilities down as possible. Then, once you’ve got them all in a big list, go through them with your family. Have discussions, take votes, research each one. Once you have a top three, five or ten (how many activities do you want to do?), then you can start making arrangements.
Going by plane? Be sure to buy plane tickets them well in advance to get the best fares. You can get great deals in you buy tickets months in advance. If you want to book a little closer, you should try to get them about six to eight weeks before the leaving date. Airfare comparison websites like Skyscanner are great for finding good deals at the best time. As you’ll be taking the entire family and all their luggage, we doubt you’ll want to take public transport to the airport. A car is the best travel method. With this in mind, you should find cheap airport parking.

Try not to take too many things that aren’t essential. You’ll of course need tickets, passports, and travel documents. Travel-sized toiletries, tissues, travel appliances and personal care items. Investigate packing organizers. Pack clothing, socks, underwear and personal items in plastic zipper bags. This prevents them from creasing. It also helps keep the clothing separate from everything else! The same goes for the toiletries; keep them in a see-through storage bag to keep other items protected, in case of unexpected spills.
Contact information for airlines, car rental agencies and travel agents, passport and itineraries. Keep it all in one place so you can easily refer to it whenever required. Consider getting a big folder or keeping it all in a lightweight briefcase.
Now get out there and have the vacation of a lifetime!
Skiing trips can be huge amounts of fun. If you are familiar with life on the piste, you already know what I mean. There are panoramic views to rival anywhere in the world. There are beautiful towns and villages to visit. And most of all, there is great skiing to be done.
Some of the most popular areas in Switzerland to go skiing are listed below. It is up to you to find the one that most appeals to your sense adventure!
Grindelwald: This is one of the resorts that mistakes itself for a real city as opposed to an artificial tourist attraction. It provides a good amount of restaurants, bars, discos, and, sadly, traffic. There is a broad range of Swiss Ski Hotels here — it is nowhere near as elitist as some other resorts. A lot of skiers use it as their base camp for hardy trips to the slopes of First, Männlichen, and Kleine Scheidegg. From Grindelwald, the ski resorts of Wengen and Mürren are reachable via the cog railway and cable car.
Gstaad/Saanenland: Gstaad is the jewel in the crown of the larger ski region of Saanenland. It is on the western border of the Bernese Oberland. Although you can find some less expensive lodgings if you’re lucky, don’t take it for granted. International playboys come here to see and be seen. There is loads to do off the slopes, for example, music festivals, shops, and people-watching. The region’s architecture is incredibly alpine. The interior decor ranges from baronial and woodsy in the really expensive hotels to a bit kitschy in cheaper places. Opportunities for great skiing are widespread. The slopes are quite manageable compared to the rest in Switzerland. Skiing is great here for beginners and those of intermediate ability.

Verbier: This is the most exclusive ski resort in French-speaking Switzerland. It has a carefree attitude and a fun-filled atmosphere. Its restaurants provide some of the most creative food in the region; others go in for simple alpine meals for big appetites. If you don’t speak French, it won’t be a barrier — many of the resort’s bars and clubs cater to Brits. (Throughout the town, English-style pubs compete cheerfully with French cafes.) Verbier sits at the centre of a sprawling network of cable cars. They connect you to the relatively small resorts like Veysonnaz and La Tzoumaz. The resort is favored by world-class athletes for the difficulty of many of its slopes.
Zermatt: Zermatt occupies a high-altitude area at the base of Switzerland’s highest mountain. That mountain is the Matterhorn. Much of the resort’s charm comes from its strict building codes. You will rarely see a modern-looking building in Zermatt — and there is almost no traffic. Access from the valley below is via the cog railway only. It has been known for over a century as a real party town. Zermatt has long been the place where the beer-drinking and revelry continues into the early morning hours. The skiing is superb.
If you have never considered Switzerland as a ski destination for you, it could be time to change your mind!